Thursday, October 26, 2006 - 6:59 PM
It got me thinking ..
Whats your definition of a good/close to pefect boyfriend or husband ? I believe girls will have different perspective regarding this =) Anyway, being single at this stage might be good too- You get to observe and learn more from others before stepping into a relationship =) Generally, people might think that having a lot of Ex-steads is something which they can boast about.Haha! These people are just showing me how SHALLOW they are- They are so deprived of love that they start fooling around.They AINT professional about love anwway =D
Back to the topic, its such a TEDIOUS process to hunt for a good boyfriend ! Worst still , whats more important in the future is to have a secure husband whom you can rely on...Maybe, we should just let nature take its own course =) If dont have , then be it !
A good boyfriend is someone who will always be there for you , someone who is WILLING to sacrifice time for you , give you some freedom space , being devoted faithful honest to you , matured thinking , someone who respect your decision and give you his fullest support , sense of humour cum entertaining. Oh ,it will also be an added advantage if they intiate to pay for your expenses when going on a date =)
I guess whats utmost important is having someone who know what he want in life & work towards his GOAL ! Having someone whom dont have a TARGET in life will be as good as a ^white elepant^ .
A good husband is someone who is matured in their thinking,fiancially stable who can afford to support the family ! , balance his family & career well , CARE for his family , reliable , someone who is dashing and is willing to take up challenges....
Seriously, i cant imagine myself getting married with the WRONG man.The idea just irks me.Guys can never be that perfect to suit your linking-They AINT reliable nor faithful as what you think. Its either they are too flirty , going round geylang hooking for china ladies ..... Or they are too possesive who need to stick to you 24/7.Haha! And this got me thinking, how will marriage gonna be like . LOL ! Anyway, this is only the BEGINNING-looking for the appropriate partner.Let managing/buliding up the family aside!
Enough said =) Share your views with me too ~ ?
falling in love~
